Am I setting boundaries or am I fearful because of the last relationship? This guy is saying all the right things, and he is really nice, and professing love... but it's awfully fast and he's also pushy. Or is he? He is expressing his care and concern, but I am also feeling pushed and pressured. Maybe it's that I am not used to someone treating me in a really loving manner... maybe it's that the last guy also said "all the right things" and turned out to be a liar and misrepresent himself emotionally. Are these warning bells, or fear?
My emotional resilience is low right now and I am already stressed from the job hunt and school BS. I don't know whether to trust him or not. There are also cultural differences to consider. I don't know, I just don't know! Are the differences that I see and the warning bells coming from my intuition or fear. And what do I fear?